While checking through the list of links that were embedded on my blog, I discovered that many of these blogs were long inactive. Many were not updated and probably a few had updated their blogs occasionally.

I saw Auntie Emily’s most recent post and I do have to agree with her that it is time to grow up. In this complex reality of the adult world, naive judgement would not bring us towards greater heights. We are supposed to grow stronger and wiser, to live up the expectations of the real world.

Over the years, I had seen many changes within my friends. Besides the changes in size (bulk or bulge), many had a different perception towards work and life. Some even had the plans of forming a new circle with their partners. Life; to them is not about being carefree but to give their very best to benefit themselves in various aspects, as well as providing certain needs for their loved ones.

I could confidently say that I had become a little wiser and down-to-earth, rather than being a person that fantasied the impossible. Still, there are many more things that I personally feel it could be improved; attitude and discipline.

I still enjoy the simplicity of my lifestyle at present and I still put up the innocent-looking smile on my face and crack tons of lame jokes, daily. Maybe, some things may never change.

However, if some things are better to remain unchanged to keep yourself happy, or act as a form of distress, and possibly be the acknowledgement of others that forms your unique personality, then why change. =]

Change for the better to make you feel worthy, rather than changing for the sake of others. Now, that is the key to lifetime happiness. That’s a personal opinion. No offence. =D