Tuesday, June 02, 2009 @ 12:39 AM
I Just Call... To Say...
This song sounds very familiar when one hears the tune of the song. Not sure of the title but to me, it is indeed a nice song that I feel many would love it, especially the older generations whom had listened it for more than 10 years?
Well, how to put it in words but I had a story to share, from a close friend of mine. Facing a similar problem as me, except that he's still attach, they had a big quarrel due to some stupid reasons and few days ago, his girlfriend had a fall and hurt herself.
Although my friend do not know how serious the fall was, he understand that his girl had been feeling pain very badly and wanted to show some words of concern, since he could not visit him as she would flare up and ignore him straight.
He called once at night but no one picked up the mobile. He thought that she might be watching her television and had placed her phone in her room or something, which is a common habit that she does. Then, at a later time, which was quite late, he called the second time.
This time round, when he wanted to hang the phone up, the reciever was picked. To my friend, it was a relief to have his girlfriend picking it up but he did not know that she was asleep. She gave an annoying tone, asking what he wants and said he disturbed her sleep. Poor friend of mine, he had to act as nothing but said he wanted to chat. Within seconds, the phone was dead. She hang the phone up, with my friend failed to express his thoughts, asking how's her injuries and pain.
I end up accompanying my friend to the bus-stop, since we stayed nearby, as he told me about his story. He decided to hum a tune of a song but while humming, you could clearly see that he was deeply hurt. He was tearing but yet, I just told him to chill. He mentioned that months ago, if he was to called her, she would not react it in this way. Yet, this time round, or should I say recently, her attitude towards him changed.
Consoling my friend is nothing much I could do but to say, take it easy for tonight, that was what I could say. "Jo", it may be hurt but it is still up to the gal to make her decision about it. Will the girl every appreciate your efforts to change, efforts to treat her well, she will never know. Maybe, she might treat others better than you, which is her born of nature?
I cant explain these things since I have no answers to mine. "Jo", have a good rest instead. What have men done wrong all the time, making women angry, even if men tried to change for the better? Only women knows the answer, so does men, for their actions. Like once someone told me, Men dont understand Women, neither will it be vice versa.