Tuesday, February 16, 2010 @ 7:29 PM
'Love' - My Philosophy
Well, it’s the Lunar New Year once again and this year, it comes with a double festive as its taking place with Valentine’s Day. Cool isn’t it?
Of course, with not Valentine willing to date me on that day, it is still great to meet up with my relatives for a gathering. Not just about the updates from each other but also the food and ang paos that many of us are getting.
Anyway, my cousin asked me this question; where’s my valentine? Where’s her? All I could reply was… well, it’s over. I didn’t know that my young cousin still remembers her as my beloved but that was the past. All things have changed for the past many months.
Well, to cheer myself up, I managed to do 2 things yesterday! It’s watching a movie “Valentine’s
Day” with Chip and to cycle around the vicinity at Woodlands before making my way home after the show. I have not been cycling for ages and I just can’t wait to get my own bicycle, rather than borrowing it from my Uncle all the time.
Well, I don’t know why but from the past days of celebrating Lunar New Year with many activities, I found out that ‘love’ is something that could be describe. The reality towards ‘love’ could be harsh but if we try to look at the positive sides of it, will relationships between one and another, regardless couples or singles, be better?
I have no idea but I still believe in my own current philosophy towards it;
To love someone does not mean that you need to be attached to that person. It’s more about ensuring someone to have blissful life, cause in your own capability, you have no idea how much you could give her. It’s better not to create more trouble and suffering to her or him if you know, some things won’t work at all.
Its all broken English but I have learnt, via the hard way I guess. Now that’s my perception towards ‘love’ at the moment.