Tuesday, May 11, 2010 @ 10:43 PM
Innocent Party
Ever wonder what causes a dispute between two parties? Yet, after a course of conflicts, ever reflect on what had happened earlier and any solutions to solve them?
I've been through many conflicts, from friends to family members, but attending one wasn't my responsibility till recently.
Being a spectator in the dispute, you often only see both sides arguing their rightness, their own opinions. Yet, they never knew that how much hurt it could create to the parties whom were innocent but involved.
A family dispute in front of your child is totally unacceptable for me. The trauma the child faced is hard to be erase. Why can't both parties talk it out nicely or perhaps, quarrel within your boundaries and not affecting the close ones around you?
Sometimes, some stuff are hard to explain or solvable. Yet, always think of the innocent parties around you and please spare a thought for them. Are you willing to bear the consequences of the result of each dispute?
Think of the unexpected...